Friday, September 12, 2008

How's Your Marriage?

This is a good question... Thanks Mommy Mec :)

My Marriage Status...

Let's see... so far both of us are doing good in our marriage. The good thing about us is that we always talked as much as possible. After every argument, we always talk about the issue. I'm just praying that my husband will act maturely this time. That's the lesson that I want him to learn :)

I admit that 2 weeks ago I'm on the verge of giving up and embark on a "trial seperation". It has nothing to do with money or the fact that I'm the one working. My only sentiments is two words being RESPONSIBLE and DISCIPLINED with your own actions.

The only major issue that gets in our way as husband and wife is my better half's addiction in playing DOTA. To some, it's not a biggie but for me it causes a lot of stress and hurt. I felt that it's not fair that I have to do all the HARD WORK while I let him do the FUN. Maybe it's my fault as well since I've been very lenient.

We are still on the adjustment period but I'm pretty sure that I've made my point clearly the last time that I got pissed off. I'm not a demanding wife let alone a nagger one. I can be giving but you don't have to abused it. I can be a very patient and understanding partner but you don't have to test it and push it to the limits.

So here we are back on track and working together as a couple. We have arguments which seldom happens but when it does it's really a SERIOUS ISSUE. The only thing that's missing in our relationship is prayer. It's been awhile since we went to hear mass together.

This Sunday is a chance for us to strengthen our marriage with God in our midst. I think we can make it work.

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